FAQ

  • How long will the coaching process take?

    The first session is 20mins, after which the coach and client will decide on whether it’s a good fit. The client will then schedule a 1hr appointment. Depending on the goals of the client, coaching can take from 1-10+ sessions, with a general average of 3 sessions.

  • Do you offer any discounts, or packages?

    There are no current packages available, but there is an introductory rate until April 1st of $90/hr and a few sliding scale spots.

  • Where does the in-person coaching happen?

    If the client wishes to meet in person in downtown Kingston, Ontario, Canada. Detailed address to follow after the initial 20 minute session is complete and the coach and client decide to continue with individual coaching together.

  • How is Sex Coaching different from Sex Therapy?

    People see both professions for similar reasons, they want to have a good sex or relationship life. Sex Therapists generally specialize in mental health, trauma and resolving specific problems. They are also licensed, require specific education, and offer clinical interventions such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. A Sex Coach on the other hand, may or may not have any specific education, and is not licensed. They focus on goals and current issues, use a variety of modalities, sometimes incorporate touch, and tend to move more quickly because they practice with the client in real time. You can read more here:

    In Emily’s case, she is a Registered Social Worker with two Honours degrees. Though it greatly informs her coaching practice, so do many other areas of her life, and she has received rigorous training from the reputable Somatica Institute. She will also be a certified Sexologist come September 2024.

  • Are you a Sex Worker?

    Emily’s coaching does not fall under their professional umbrella. She provides coaching through conversations, as well as hands-on intimacy training, with the goal of self-growth and discovery. If someone is looking for genital sex, nudity or kissing, to have an “experience”, or to wish to receive BDSM services, other professionals are better suited to those needs. If someone is looking for a lover or partner(s), the coaching will guide them towards success in that goal, but is not meant to replace their role. Emily has strict boundaries around the practice, and is there to increase the client’s relationship skills, not replace their partners and lovers.

  • Do you see men as coaching clients?

    Cisgendered men (men who were assigned male at birth) are welcome to come for coaching when they are the partners of existing coaching clients to enrich the client’s growth, or within workshop settings. Trans men are welcome to sign up for individual coaching.

  • Are you covered by work benefits?

    Unfortunately not.

  • Who designed your awesome logo?

    Ok, this might not be an FAQ, but Emily drew the initial logo concept using ink and then Canva. She then received assistance from AI through Hiloma Montreal to refine the image, and further design and typography by Iris Glaser, Graphic Artist in Toronto.

  • Can I give you feedback?

    Yes, Emily welcomes feedback. I encourage the use of the Socrates 4 Gates Method (asking yourself 1. Is it true? 2. Is it kind? 3. Is it necessary? and 4. Is it helpful?).